Saddle Up!

equestrianWhile watching on television the Summer Olympic Games that recently took place in Rio, I caught some of the equestrian competition. The announcer mentioned that one competitor had earned $1 million riding her horse. I immediately thought to myself, “A million dollars just for riding a horse? Sign me up for some of that!”

Then it occurred to me that it was probably more difficult than it looks. The jumps were long and high. I know that the training takes a lot of time and effort, the expenses are costly and the traveling must be grueling. After all of that, you have to beat your competitors to earn big money. Yes, there is more to the equestrian competition than first meets the eye.

It’s the same for operating a local church. For the casual observer, it seems like a piece of cake. Anyone could do it, right? So, many people feel that they could make the decisions and set the course.

However, leading a local congregation is much more difficult than many people realize. It requires planning and organization. You have to know the issues facing the church. You have to know the difference between a minor concern and a major problem. You must know how to delegate and how to manage conflict. You have to have thick skin, but a soft heart. It takes a lot of time, effort and energy—a lot of blood, sweat and tears.

Before you saddle up and try to be a policy-maker in the church, you had better understand that it’s not as easy as it looks!

“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is…to lead, do it diligently…”—Romans 12:6-8.

 

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Different Reactions

Teddy BridgewaterMinnesota Vikings quarterback Teddy Bridgewater has shown that he can win in the NFL. Bridgewater had made such strides recently that his team felt that their promising quarterback was ready to lead them to a deep playoff run this season. Those dreams took a huge hit yesterday when Bridgewater went down with a serious, non-contact knee injury. His knee was dislocated and he completely tore his ACL. Teddy is expected to be able to make a full recovery, but not without significant time recovering from this major injury.

When his Vikings teammates saw that the injury was so serious, they knew instantly that their season had just taken a drastic turn for the worse, and they felt for their quarterback as he lay on the turf in pain.

However, the Vikings players had greatly differing reactions to what had just transpired. Some hurled their helmets to the ground and shouted expletives. Others dropped to their knees and prayed.

It is interesting to see that such different reactions would occur in response to the same event. However, you see it all the time from other people in all kinds of situations. In times of distress, some will curse; some will pray.

It all depends on what is inside a person.

“But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them.”—Matthew 15:18.

 

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Questionable Stand

jersey burningSan Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick has caused quite a stir by refusing to stand for the National Anthem before a recent pre-season NFL game. The reason he gave for this protest is his concern for the way minorities have been oppressed in our country.

His actions have been met with a lot of ridicule by patriotic fans. Some of them have burned Kaepernick’s jersey to show their disgust with his protest.

Kaepernick has his right to free speech. However, it seems that the path he has chosen will do nothing to alleviate the problem he wants to address. If anything, he has destroyed any platform he might have had to promote any positive change on the issue.

We all have certain causes that stir passion within our hearts. Let us be careful about how we take our stand (or our refusal to stand, as the case may be) on any particular issue. We want to be wise in the actions we take to bring about positive change.

“Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders: make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”—Colossians 4:5-6.

 

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Selfie-Inflicted Pain

selfieI recently read an article that said that many Americans are suffering physically because they have been taking too many selfies. I kept looking for some hint that the article was a joke, but apparently it’s true. Those who regularly take dozens of selfies a day must extend their arms in an awkward manner, causing a condition that has been named “selfie elbow”.

Orthopedic surgeon Ayan Roy says “A bent elbow with the palm pointing inward is enough to put pressure on the elbow extensor muscles. It eventually leads to tendinitis which causes the swelling and pain.”

Of course there are many other ways that focusing on yourself too much can cause pain. Selfishness not only hurts those around you, but in the long run, brings pain to yourself as well. That’s why the Bible warns against being selfish.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”—Philippians 2:3-4.

 

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More than Listening

3-2-1The mid-week Bible study group at our church recently finished what we called a “3-2-1 Study” of the gospel of Matthew. This approach can be used with any portion of Scripture. It’s really quite simple. We were looking for some things to write down as we studied: Three things to know, two things to pray about and one thing to do.

We looked for things that we wanted to remember, such as the location of: the Sermon on the Mount, the Golden Rule, the Greatest Commandment and the Great Commission. Perhaps what we wanted to know was a concept, such as: the great lengths we must go to forgive someone, the fact that faith and fear do not mix or the exhortation not to worry. If we write these biblical teachings down as we read them, we stand a much better chance of retaining them.

We also looked for a couple of things to pray about. Prayer and Bible study should go hand-in-hand. If we are praying God’s Word back to him, it’s hard to go wrong! We were reminded to pray for boldness, for greater faith, for workers for the harvest and many other items that are very important to God.

Finally, we wanted to write down at least one thing to do. Not just some vague notion of “doing better” either! We tried to put something on paper that would require a certain action, such as: forgiving a particular individual who had wronged us, witnessing to a certain friend about Jesus or showing love to a person who is difficult to love.

Writing these concepts down helps us to remember God’s Word and to pray and act within his will.

“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”—James 1:22.

 

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Expecting Fruit

vineyardI recently attended an outdoor wedding that took place in a vineyard. The setting was beautiful, and the weather cooperated. It was a very nice ceremony.

At the reception, someone mentioned that they had checked the vines and found that there were indeed very small grapes growing there. Another person and I looked at each other and had the same thought at the same time—“We didn’t even think to look for grapes!”

Of course there should be grapes in a vineyard. That’s what vineyards are for—producing grapes.

Christians are also supposed to produce fruit. If someone took a close look at you, would they find any?

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control…”—Galatians 5:22-23.

 

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Up Next

Faith Esham

Faith Esham

At a recent funeral service, I was scheduled to preach right after a lady delivered a solo. It wasn’t just any lady singing. It was Faith Esham, an accomplished vocalist who for years has made a living singing opera. (Faith grew up in my home town, but she lives in New York now. I don’t know why she thought she couldn’t make a living as an opera singer in a small town in Kentucky!)

As I listened to Faith sing a beautiful old hymn, it suddenly occurred to me that I was up next. I had to follow a professional opera singer! That didn’t seem fair at all! I found myself wishing that I had been able to have some input on what the lineup would be.

But then I realized that we all can’t have the same kind of talent. It wasn’t a competition. All I could do was to do what I was supposed to do—preach the funeral message—and do it to the best of my ability.

That’s all any of us can do. Use the talent God has given us and give it our best effort. There is no need to compare ourselves with others—especially professional opera singers!

“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us…”—Romans 12:6.

 

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Different Type of Grieving

Jodi Flinchum

Jodi Flinchum

My wife just attended the funeral of a young lady who had led a faithful Christian life. This service for Jodi Flinchum truly was a celebration of her life. There was joy through the tears as the mourners reflected not only on the life of their loved one, but on the eternal life that she is now experiencing with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Those who don’t know Jesus can’t possibly experience the kind of hope that we Christians have. Without the certainty of eternal life, the despair that is felt by those who survive is more than anyone should have to bear.

Thank God we have the opportunity to grieve in a different way!

“Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.”—1Thessalonians 4:13.

 

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Comparison

hand

My left hand. The good one. I think.

I once had some surgery to correct a finger that was crooked due to Dupuytren’s contracture. After the operation I needed some physical therapy in order to regain full function of my hand.

 

During one session, my therapist wanted to see how straight my finger was by comparing it to my other hand. What she didn’t know was that the fingers on both of my hands are kind of gnarly and busted up. This is partly genetic and partly due to the fact that I have banged up my fingers many times while participating in sports.

When I held up my “good” hand for comparison, and she saw how crooked the fingers are, she quickly said, “Never mind.”

You can’t measure the straightness of something unless you have something straight as a guideline.

We can’t measure how holy we are by looking at other imperfect human beings. We get our idea of holiness from God. Any other comparison will only give us a false impression of our true standing. We might think we are doing pretty well if we compare ourselves to how other people are living. But then we would only be fooling ourselves.

“But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: ‘Be holy, because I am holy.”–1 Peter 1:15-16.

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A Little Help!

Derek and Jim Redmond

Derek and Jim Redmond

In the Summer Olympics of 1992 at Barcelona, British sprinter Derek Redmond was competing in the quarterfinals of the 400 meter race. Halfway through the race Redmond tore a hamstring and collapsed on the track. The agony on his face was both physical and mental. He had trained for years in anticipation of competing on the world’s largest stage for track and field. Now his dreams for a medal were gone in an instant.

When medical help came to assist him, Derek waved them away. Determined to finish the race, he got to his feet and started hobbling around the track.

An older man came out of the crowd and brushed by the officials who tried to stop him. He ran up to Derek and put his arms around him. It was his father, Jim.

“You don’t have to do this, son,” Jim said.

“Yes, I do!” Derek replied.

“Then we’ll finish this race together.”

Arm in arm they continued around the track. There was agony on Derek’s face, and tears on his father’s. Finally, with the crowd roaring their approval with a standing ovation, Derek Redmond—with a little help from his father—crossed the finish line. It was one of the defining moments of the Barcelona Olympics.

We would like to think that we can do everything on our own, but the truth is, sometimes we need a little help. And sometimes we need to give a little help to those who have fallen.”

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”—Galatians 6:2.

 

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