Leading Toward Church Growth

A few years ago, I attended a seminar on church growth. The leader of the seminar was the new preacher at a large, but declining church. He had been called to lead the congregation out of this period of stagnation and into a new era of growth.

The preacher said that he had studied the history of the church. It had once been a vibrant congregation that was blessed with visionary leaders who made bold decisions. Their cutting-edge initiatives were well-received by the congregation, and the church enjoyed a time of numerical growth. They were making a huge difference in their community and earned a reputation as a church that other congregations could learn from. They maintained this momentum for several decades.

Then, for some unknown reason, the church became timid. They copied other churches and made the mistake of adopting a set of legalistic rules and regulations that served to handcuff the leadership. Rather than allowing the elders to make the most important decisions, the congregation began to vote on important matters. (Show me where that ever happened in the Bible!) Non-leaders were given the task of making leadership decisions, and you can imagine how that turned out. Those who were gifted with leadership abilities became tentative, and were reluctant to try to truly lead. The church not only stagnated, it headed into a downward spiral that continued for years. Attendance dropped by about 40%. The congregation was no longer a model for other churches to follow.

Romans 12:6-8 says, “We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is…leadership, let him govern diligently…”

This is good biblical advice for everyone, both leaders and non-leaders. Let the leaders lead! Many churches are paying a huge price for ignoring this part of God’s word.

Oh, and the preacher who was called to help the stagnant church? He presented the congregation with the same findings that he shared with us at the seminar. He wasn’t their preacher very much longer after that. What a shame!

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Until Proven Guilty

Suh

Ndamukong Suh, the 307-pound star defensive lineman of the Detroit Lions, has been suspended by the NFL for two games for unsportsmanlike conduct. In a game last Thursday, Suh pounded the head of an opponent into the turf a couple of times, then stomped on the player. The video of this outrageous infraction has been replayed countless times since it occurred. Many Americans have seen the replay of this incident, and are appalled at Suh’s behavior.

Suh’s immediate response was quite defensive. He denied doing anything wrong, even though the proof was there for all to see. He finally admitted some wrong-doing on his part, but plans to appeal the two-game suspension.

It’s easy to become outraged at people like Suh,  who commit such atrocious acts and then deny any wrong-doing. But it’s much more difficult to accept responsibility for our own sins. I can remember being a boy named “Suh” a time or two myself. Tell the truth—haven’t you ever denied responsibility for doing something wrong, even when it was obvious that you were guilty?

1 John 1:8-9 says, “If we claim to be without sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

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Peace and Quiet

Several years ago some friends and I went on a whitewater rafting trip in West Virginia. As we turned off the main highway, I looked forward to a peaceful evening of camping out in the wilderness.

An employee of the campground directed us to the site where we would pitch our tents. Twisting and turning on a dirt road, we worked our way farther away from civilization. Finally, we arrived at our camp site and began to set up our tents.

It didn’t take long to realize that we could hear the traffic from the highway, and it wasn’t very far away! Our winding path had taken us right next to the main road! Instead of an evening of peace and quiet, we endured the sounds of 18-wheelers gearing down and struggling to make it up the hill. It was late in the night before I could finally drift off to sleep.

Jesus often got away from everything in order to spend time with God. Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.”

We know that we should follow the example of Jesus and spend some quiet time alone with God. However, sometimes we get turned around, like on my camping trip, and end up right back in the noisy traffic of life.

What is it that sometimes interrupts your quiet time with God? What can you do to try to prevent these interruptions?

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Perfect Timing

I recently stayed at a motel that offers free breakfast. You never know exactly what that means, since the definition of “breakfast” differs from one motel to the next. I was pleased to find a nice selection of tasty options. My favorite was the do-it-yourself waffles. I usually hesitate to take on that kind of a project myself. My wife is so much better at that kind of thing. However, she was not available to help me, so I bravely read the directions on the waffle-maker and attempted to make my own breakfast.

The timer on the waffle-maker was set for two-and-a-half minutes. By following directions to the letter, I had a perfect waffle in two minutes and thirty seconds. If I had to decide on my own how long to cook it, the waffle may have been far from perfect. I might have impatiently taken it out too early, only to find it gooey and uncooked on the inside. If I had become distracted, say by pouring my coffee, I might have ended up with a burnt waffle. By trusting the timer, everything worked out fine.

Sometimes we find ourselves questioning God’s timing. We think that we aren’t ready for the opportunity that has presented itself. Or, more often, we wonder if God has forgotten about a need or desire that we have been praying about.

We need to trust God’s timing. A friend of mine used to say, “God is seldom early, but never late.” I have found this to be true. We may not understand God’s timing until later—perhaps not until eternity—but we must believe that he will ultimately accomplish what he intends to bring about. And he will do it in his perfect timing.

 

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Songs of Thanksgiving

“Every time I tried to tell you, the words just came out wrong, so I’ll have to say “I love you” in a song.”—Jim Croce.

Have you ever noticed how you can say things in a song that you could never say otherwise? Music somehow enhances our ability to express ourselves, especially when deep emotions are involved.

It’s no wonder then, that the Bible places such a heavy emphasis on music and singing. This type of worship gives us a much-needed avenue for expressing our gratitude to God for the many ways he has blessed us. Remember this if you ever find yourself hoping that the song service will end soon!

“Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving; make music to our God on the harp.”—Psalm 147:7.

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Best Word

Rudyard Kipling

Rudyard Kipling became such a popular author that for every word he wrote, his publishers paid him 10 shillings. When they heard about this, some college students, as a joke, sent him 10 shillings along with a letter asking him to send them his best word. Kipling wrote back, “Thanks!”

Perhaps the best word we have to give God is “Thanks!”

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”—Colossians 3:17.

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What Are You Supposed to Say?

A friend once brought her 4 sons to our house for Halloween. My wife and I invited these trick-or-treaters inside so we could comment on their costumes. The youngest, 3 years old, was dressed as a ghost.

When they were ready to leave, the mother wanted to make sure that her sons had thanked us for the candy, so she asked them, “What are you supposed to say?” The 3-year-old looked up at us and said, “Boo!”

Maybe we all need to be taught a little better how to say thanks. It often takes time and effort to develop a grateful heart. As we learn better to appreciate the many blessings that we have in Jesus Christ, hopefully we will become better at expressing our gratitude to our heavenly Father who loves us so much.

“Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”—1 Thessalonians 5:18.

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Name Them One By One

A story is told about a minister who was visiting a leper colony. He was leading the worship, and there was time for one more congregational song. A woman who had kept her face turned away from the platform turned toward the worship leader, revealing a face that had been ravaged by leprosy. She raised her stub of a hand and asked, “Can we sing “Count Your Blessings”?

Overcome by emotion, the minister fled the stage. He was followed by a fellow minister who tried to comfort him. “I guess you’ll never be able to sing that song again!”

“Oh, yes I will,” he responded, “but never the same way.”

Count your blessings today.

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Untarnished

Some people feel that the reputation of the entire university at Penn State has taken a huge hit because of the sex scandal that has recently unfolded. Several individuals have been charged with wrong-doing. Some would say that the sins of a few have given the whole university a black eye.

Others, however, disagree. Amy Fietlson, a 19-year-old sophomore at Penn State says, “I don’t think that our name is tarnished at all. The integrity of a few individuals who have been involved with this school is definitely tarnished, but for the rest of us that had no way of preventing it or had no involvement in it, we are not tarnished at all. Our integrity remains.”

In Revelation 3, Jesus sent a message for the church at Sardis. He chastised some of them and told them that they needed to repent and to spiritually “Wake up!” (v.2.). However, he goes on to say, “Yet you have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy. He who overcomes will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out his name from the book of life, but will acknowledge his name before my Father and his angels.” (vv.4-5).

Some people who claim to follow Jesus behave in a devilish manner. Their sins do not stain the reputation of those who are living godly lives. The church, the sparkling bride of Christ, remains untarnished.

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Truly Thankful

Two men were walking across a field. They didn’t realize that there was a mean bull in that field. Soon the bull realized that the two men had invaded his territory. The huge beast, with its menacing horns, charged toward the men, who started running for their lives.

“You’d better start praying!” one man urged.

“I don’t know how!” the second man frantically responded.

“Did your mother pray when you were little?”

“Yes!”

“Then pray like she did!”

The frightened man prayed in a loud voice, “O Lord, for what we are about to receive, may we truly be thankful!”

We are receiving many wonderful blessings from our loving heavenly Father. May we truly be thankful!

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father…”—James 1:17.

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