Quit Your Griping!

In one of his recent Speed Bump cartoons, Dave Coverly has a grumpy looking elderly couple sitting in a booth at a restaurant, looking at the menu. The waitress asks them, “Would you like to start by complaining about an appetizer? Or are you ready to go ahead and complain about a meal?”

Not every senior citizen fits the stereotype of an old grouch who complains all the time. Some of them are the sweetest, most easy-going people you will ever meet. However, there are many who seem to thrive on finding things to grumble about. And some of them, sad to say, are Christians.

My wife and I used to go out to eat with some senior citizens after church on Sunday evening. It became embarrassing to listen to their complaining every single time we shared a meal together. It was a poor witness to the waitresses, who usually knew that we had just come from church.

As we grow older, let’s try to grow more thankful for what we have and more gracious toward others.

Philippians 2:14 says, “Do everything without complaining or arguing.”

That’s what the Bible says. If you want to complain about it, don’t talk to me. Talk to the One who wrote it.

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The Forgiveness Tour

After several years of laboring to produce a meager harvest from hard soil, it was time to move on to another ministry. I found myself experiencing some hard feelings toward a few people who had vehemently opposed me. I wondered if I had truly forgiven them. This was quite a concern, since Jesus teaches that the forgiveness we receive from God is based on our willingness to forgive others (Matt.6:14-15).

Jesus also says, “…Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matt.5:44). So a few days before we moved away from that town, I got in my car and took a drive. I drove past the home of every person who had caused me grief because of my ministry. Slowing down as I passed each home, I prayed a sincere prayer for the well-being of each of my enemies. I call it “The Forgiveness Tour”.

Maybe you need to take a mental tour and forgive some people who have wronged you. Or perhaps you need to do like I did and actually get in the car and do some “drive-by” praying. Take it from me; it will do your soul some good.

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The Right to Decide

Coach Wooden and Bill Walton

Star basketball player Bill Walton once told his legendary coach, John Wooden, that he didn’t have the right to tell him that he needed to get a haircut. Wooden responded, “But I have the right to decide who plays and who doesn’t.”

God has appointed elders to oversee the church (Acts 20:28). While they are not to be micro-managers, it is their duty to make the most important decisions in the church. The elders collectively decide what the game plan is for their congregation.

Every church member has the duty to submit to the leadership of the elders. Heb.13:17 says, “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.”

Bill Walton got a haircut, and he and Coach Wooden helped form a UCLA team that was nearly unbeatable.

Once the leaders and followers in a church understand and accept their role, they can work together effectively. And when they do, there’s no telling how many victories can be won for Christ!

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Still in the Saddle

Roy Brooks

When his horse fell on top of him last May 15, many thought that Roy Brooks’ career as a competitive jockey was over. After all, he was 69 years old! But even though he had a broken pelvis and a torn urethra, Brooks had other ideas. He planned to return to competitive racing. He said, “I don’t feel like I’m 69. I don’t think of being that old. If you get to thinking you’re too old, you’ve got to stop doing this.”

Roy’s goal was to ride on November 15 in the $350,000 Black Gold Futurity at Will Rogers Downs in Claremore. Not only did he ride in that race, Brooks guided 8-1 shot Freighttrain B to victory.

Brooks plans to ride in races when he turns 70 in August. After that, he said, “We’ll see what happens.”

Sadly, many Christians retire too early from serving the Lord. They feel like they’ve put their time in, or that they no longer have anything to offer. We need more Christians with the perseverance of Roy Brooks. Wouldn’t it be great if senior Christians had the same attitude as Caleb when he said, “…So here I am today, 85 years old! I am still as strong today as the day Moses sent me out; I’m just as vigorous to go out to battle now as I was then.” (Joshua 14:10-11).

Stay in the saddle, my friend. We have more races to win.

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Preview of Heaven

One of the most memorable worship services I have ever participated in took place in a remote village in northern Thailand. There were about 15 in our group that had travelled there for a short-term mission trip. We tried to participate in the worship service as much as we could, but the language barrier was a factor—most of the service was conducted in Thai.

However, when it came time for communion, there was no difficulty understanding what we were doing. The congregation–which on that day consisted of people from different sides of the world—was united in remembering that Jesus died to save us all.

The apostle John wrote, “After this I looked and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and in front of the Lamb…” (Rev.7:9).

In that remote Thai village on the other side of the world, I got a marvelous preview of heaven.

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Answered Prayer

I asked God for strength, that I might achieve,

I was made weak, that I might learn to humbly obey.

I asked for health that I might do greater things,

I was given illness, that I might do better things.

I asked for riches, that I might be happy,

I was given poverty, that I might be wise.

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men,

I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life,

I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.

I got nothing that I asked for, but everything I had hoped for.

Almost in spite of myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.

I am among all people, most richly blessed.

                        –Author Unknown

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Focus of Attention

I just read about an athlete who was much-ballyhooed as a high school basketball player. This led me to reminisce about my own high school basketball career. I can’t remember being ballyhooed all that much. Maybe twice. Three times, tops.

“Ballyhoo” means: 1. A noisy attention-getting demonstration or talk. 2. Grossly exaggerated or sensational advertising or propaganda.

Christians shouldn’t be concerned about being much-ballyhooed. We should be making Jesus the focus of attention. We are walking advertisements for Jesus Christ, and we don’t need to exaggerate when we talk about him. He created everything (John 1:3) and he died in order to save the world (1John 2:2). Therefore, Jesus really deserves to be much-ballyhooed.

John 3:14-15 says, “Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life.”

Let’s lift Jesus up and make him the focus of attention, today and every day.

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Get Your MBA

Dave Thomas

Dave Thomas, founder of the Wendy’s restaurant chain, was always reminding his employees that they needed to have an MBA. He wasn’t referring to a Masters in Business Administration—he meant a Mop Bucket Attitude. He wanted the people who worked for him to have the mindset that their job was to serve people. One year, the annual corporate report had a picture of Mr. Thomas holding a mop and a plastic bucket.

Jesus wants those who work for him to have a servant mindset also. I don’t think that Jesus and his disciples ever published an annual report, but if they did, perhaps it would have featured a picture of Jesus with a basin in one hand and a towel in the other.

“Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all.”—Mark 9:35.

Try to work on your MBA today.

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We’re Playing Who?

A few years ago, my wife and I were driving in Lexington, Kentucky, listening to some local sports talk on the radio. We were informed that the next opponent for the University of Kentucky would be the Florida Gators. Karen wasn’t paying close attention, so she misunderstood what was said. She asked me, “Did he just say that we are playing the fornicators?”

Over the years we’ve had a lot of fun over that comment. Any time we hear about that team from down south, we jokingly call them the “fornicators”.

“Fornicator” is a word that isn’t used much these days. A fornicator is a person who participates in sexual activity outside the institution of marriage. Modern translations of the Bible usually replace the word “fornicator” with “sexually immoral” or some similar word or phrase. But the prohibition of such activity has never changed. 1 Cor.6:9-10 says, “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.”

“Fornicator” may be a funny sounding word, but it is no laughing matter. There is no room for fornicators in the kingdom of God. Make sure that you are on the Lord’s team. Don’t be a fornicator!

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Something to Sing About

There has been a songbird outside my window every morning for the past couple of weeks. Doesn’t he know that it’s still February? Why would he sing when the temperature is in the 20s? What kind of song would he warble with a storm on the way? Shouldn’t he wait for sunshine and warm temperatures before he sings?

Psalm 59:16 says, “But I will sing of your strength, in the morning I will sing of your love; for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble.”

Maybe that little bird is trying to teach me something. We Christians have something to sing about no matter what is going on in our lives. Don’t you agree?

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