That Girl

Tom and Karen Cox

Our 5-year-old neighbor was having a difficult time remembering our names. One day, wanting to know where my wife was, he asked me, “Where’s that girl?” Knowing what he meant, but wanting to get him to say Karen’s name, I asked him what girl he was talking about. He replied, “You know, that girl that follows you around.”

Karen has followed me around for over 21 years now. That path has taken us to several different towns and churches. She has stayed with me through unemployment, sickness, surgery and other times when I wasn’t the easiest person to follow. I feel quite blessed because she has been with me every step of the way.

“…Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. 17 Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me.” (Ruth 1:16-17)

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Much Fruit

Truckload of tomatoes

This time of year it is not unusual to see tomatoes lying in the streets of Kokomo, Indiana. The trucks hauling the freshly harvested tomatoes are usually loaded to capacity, and when they turn a corner they often lose a few tomatoes.

This reminds me of how Jesus expects his followers to produce a lot of fruit. In John 15:5 he says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

Gal.5:22-23 tells us what kind of fruit we are to produce—“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control…”

Let’s all strive to make sure that Jesus sees an abundance of this kind of fruit in our lives. In John 15:8, Jesus states, “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.” Can the people in your home town see the trail of fruit that you have left behind?

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Get Back on that Horse

We’ve all heard that when you fall off a horse you need to get back on it again. Diana Moore, a competitor in the World Equestrian Games, literally did that. 20 years ago, when she was 18, she and her horse both fell on pavement, and she has been paralyzed on her left side ever since. She says that the first thing she said when she regained consciousness was, “I am going to ride horses again.”

After her accident, Moore had to learn to talk and eat again. At times she had doubts about riding again. But thanks to her determination and an upbeat outlook on life, she got back in the saddle again. This week she will ride for Argentina in an event that will include disabled competitors.

Sometimes we take a bad tumble in life. It could come in the form of a failed marriage, lost job, illness or accident, addiction, family problem, moral failure, etc. It may take time to recover from such a fall, but thankfully, we have a God who gives second chances, and quite often the Lord uses bad breaks to make us stronger people.

Rom.5:3-5 offers these words of encouragement—“…we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.”

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Stop the Bleeding

Tex Cobb

Ex-boxer Tex Cobb recently came up with a good line when he was talking to the Philadelphia Inquirer about graduating from Temple last year at the age of 57. Cobb is quoted as saying, “It was nice to have that opportunity to wear a robe, to step up there and not have to worry about bleeding.”

It sure is nice to be able to go to church and not have to worry about bleeding. The church has been called the only army that shoots its wounded. Many people who are hurting–physically, emotionally or spiritually—come to church needing comfort and instead find people who kick them while they are down. Others come to church in relatively good shape…until the church gets through with them.

Gal.5:15 says, “If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.”

The church shouldn’t inflict pain on people; it should be a hospital for the hurting. Let’s do everything we can to stop the bleeding at our churches.

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Not Forsaken

A record number of children have died in hot vehicles this year. According to a group that keeps track of such deaths, 48 children have died after being left or becoming trapped in a hot car or truck. The previous record of 47 was set in 2005.

Experts say that leaving a child in a hot vehicle is not always the result of negligence. Quite often these tragedies occur because the parent or guardian becomes distracted or has a sudden change of routine, and forgets that a child has been left in the car seat.

Your heart has to go out to a parent who has to pay such a high emotional price for a forgetful moment. It reminds us that even the best parents are not perfect.

We can be thankful that we have a perfect heavenly Father who will never, ever forget us. Deut.31:8 says, “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

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Good Role Player

Shaquille O’Neal

Shaquille O’Neal has been an All-Star for most of his NBA career. However, as he enters his 20th season, he is expected to come off the bench for the Boston Celtics. Rather than sulk about his new role, Shaq is not complaining at all. He realizes that the first part of his career was all about him scoring and being the star of the team. Shaq says, “That part of my game is over now. It’s time for me to be a …good role player.”

You have to admire O’Neal’s willingness to take a lesser role and allow other players to be in the spotlight. It shows maturity on his part. He is willing to do whatever it takes to be the kind of team player that Boston needs in order to be a winning team.

The church at Corinth had too many members who wanted to be the star of the show. Others thought that they weren’t important because they weren’t as gifted as other members. Paul wrote to them about this issue. In 1 Cor.12:12 he says, “The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ.”

He goes on to say that the parts of the body shouldn’t think that they are any more or less valuable than other parts; every part is needed. The body couldn’t function properly if every part did the same thing. So in the church, we have diversity, and at the same time, we have unity.

V.27 sums it up with these encouraging words—“Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.”

Like Shaq, your role might change over the years. But you are designed to be an important part of your local church. We should all relish the role that God has prepared for us and joyfully offer our unique contributions to a winning team.

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Winners!

The Cincinnati Reds have just won the Central Division championship in the National League. The Reds clinched the title in dramatic fashion, with a walk-off home run by Jay Bruce in the bottom of the ninth inning. It was the 45th come-from-behind victory for Cincinnati this season. It feels especially good when you can turn things around and snatch victory from the jaws of defeat.

Sometimes it feels like the world is winning and the church is losing. On many issues, the battle is going the wrong way. But we can take heart in knowing that we will be ultimately victorious. We have read the story, and we know how it turns out in the end.

Jesus sent a message to the church in the last part of the first century. The book of Revelation was addressed to believers who were struggling to hold on to their faith in a world where evil was prevalent. The early Christians faced persecution and many other hardships. They were discouraged in the face of such severe adversity. But Jesus urged his people to remain faithful to him, no matter what happened. The promise he made to them applies also to believers today—“…Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life.” (Rev.2:10).

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The World’s Greatest Christian

I once met the world’s greatest Christian. How did I recognize her as such? She had no halo or aura to signify how special she was. So how did I know? She told me. Oh, not in so many words. But by the way she went on and on about all the good things she had been doing that day, and about how others should be doing the same but they weren’t, I got the message–I was standing in the presence of greatness.

When confronted with such cartoonish behavior, we might tend to focus on the arrogance of the offensive individual. Instead, I must take a good look at myself to see if I am practicing humility, or if I am blowing my own horn. Do I bring up a certain matter as a prayer concern, or as a means of fishing for compliments by showing how involved I am in trying to minister to people?

Prov.27:2 says, “Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own lips.”

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Scarred Hands

Tom’s hand post-op

I have a condition called Dupuytren’s contracture. If left unchecked, it can cause one or more fingers to bend toward the palm, so that you cannot straighten them. Until recently, the only way to correct this condition is through surgery. I had my right hand operated on about five years ago. Then I had the left one done about a year ago. The surgeries were successful to the extent that I have full use of both hands now. However, the operations have left my hands noticeably scarred.

Sometimes when I look at my hands, I think about the hands of Jesus. But his scars and mine are quite different. My wounds were made with a surgeon’s scalpel, not a Roman soldier’s hammer and nails. I had good anesthesia when my wounds occurred; Jesus refused the painkiller that was offered him. My wounds didn’t help anyone but me; Jesus’ wounds paid for the sins of mankind.

Thank God for scarred hands!

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Easy Decision

Joe Gibbs

Joe Gibbs is an NFL Hall of Fame coach and the owner of a NASCAR team. He is also an outspoken Christian. Recently Gibbs had the opportunity to speak to 600 inmates in South Carolina. He told them, “On the one side, I’m being told I’m an accident. And on the other side, I’m being told that it’s a loving God who made me. That was an easy decision.”

Looking at the evidence, it should be an easy decision for all of us to accept the idea of a loving Creator and reject the suggestion that we are just the end result of a series of random, but fortunate events that occurred for no reason at all.

Gen.1:1—“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”

Gen.1:27—“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”

Jer.1:5—“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart…”

Ps.139:13—“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.”

Once you make this important, but easy decision, your life will never be the same. You are not here by accident. You have a purpose. Now, live a meaningful life!

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