It’s All About Choices

happinessThe Mayo Clinic did some research into the reasons for human happiness and came up with this conclusion: “People who are happy seem to intuitively know that their happiness is the sum of their life choices.”

While this may seem a bit simplistic, it certainly is true. Miserable people are usually those who are suffering the consequences of poor decisions they have made. They decided to discontinue their education. They decided to partner with someone who would not love them. They decided to get involved with alcohol or other drugs. They decided to live beyond their means. They decided to hang around with people who exert a bad influence on them.

Life is filled with many important decisions, and what we choose to do will definitely affect our happiness.

The most important decision anyone will ever make is to turn your life over to God and become a servant of Jesus Christ. All other decisions pale in comparison. True joy cannot be experienced outside of Christ.

“…Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve…, but as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”—Joshua 24:15.

 

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Royally Humble

Queen Elizabeth

Queen Elizabeth

It is reported that Queen Elizabeth was once approached by some American tourists who did not recognize her. When they asked her if she “was from around here”, she nodded that she was. Then they asked, “Have you ever met the Queen?!” She smiled and answered, “No.” Then, gesturing with her thumb toward her body guard, she added, “but he has.”

You have to appreciate that kind of humility.

“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.”—1 Peter 5:6.

 

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Winners and Losers

And the real winner is...

And the real winner is…

There has been much talk about the mix-up at the Academy Awards last Sunday evening. “La La Land” was announced as the winner of the best picture award. Many people affiliated with the movie came up on stage to receive the award. In the middle of the acceptance speeches, there appeared to be some confusion. Then, in a shocking twist, it was announced that there had been a mistake—“Moonlight” was the actual winner of the best picture award.

Imagine how it must have felt for those associated with “La La Land” to briefly think that they were the winners at the Oscars, only to be shocked by the realization that they had not actually won.

In the same way, those who oppose God feel that they are the winners, and they perceive Christians to be the losers. 1 Peter 4:4 says, “They are surprised that you do not join them in their reckless, wild living, and they heap abuse on you.”

Compared with eternity, the time that worldly people consider themselves to be winners is only a brief period in human existence. There will come a time when they will suddenly realize that they are not winners after all. Those outside of Christ will be devastated to finally understand that they are the losers and that they will receive no award.

On the other hand, we in the church—who are made to feel like losers in this life—will eventually receive the recognition and reward reserved for those who are faithful to Jesus.

Don’t be a loser!

 

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Careful What You Think!

dietingDieters sometimes feel that just thinking about food adds inches to their waistline. Dr. Alan P. Xenakis, author of Why Doesn’t My Funny Bone Make Me Laugh?, says dieters may be right. In certain people, thinking about food increases their insulin level, which makes them feel hungry. Thinking about food doesn’t actually add pounds, but an increased appetite may!

Our thoughts stimulate other appetites as well, appetites that can lead to sin. To control our conduct, we first must control our thoughts.

“But each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”—James 1:14-15.

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All Choked Up

preacher-at-a-funeralI have noticed that I seem to be getting more choked up at funerals than I once did. This could pose a problem, since I am often the preacher at funerals I attend!

At first I thought that perhaps I was becoming more emotional. That does occasionally happen when one gets older.

Then I had another thought. What if the reason for my watery eyes and runny nose was not the welling up of emotions, but the presence of so many fragrant flowers nearby? The preacher often sits very close to a virtual wall of flowers, and I have come to believe that this is the reason for my getting choked up.

Maybe I should keep this information a secret. It might be good to be known as the preacher who cares enough to get all choked up at funerals!

In any case, we all should “…mourn with those who mourn.” (Romans 12:15).

But if you really want to look like a caring person, sit close to the flowers!

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens…a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.”—Ecclesiastes 3:1,4).

 

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Dangerous Thirst

glass-of-waterIn one movie some men were shipwrecked and left drifting aimlessly on the ocean in a lifeboat. As the days passed under the scorching sun, their rations of food and fresh water ran out. One man ignored all previous warnings and gulped down some seawater. He quickly died.

Ocean water contains seven times more salt than the human body can safely ingest. Drinking it, a person dehydrates because the kidneys demand extra water to flush the overload of salt. The more salt water someone drinks, the thirstier he gets. He actually dies of thirst.

When we lust, we become like this man. We thirst desperately for something that looks like what we want. We don’t realize, however, that it is precisely the opposite of what we really need. In fact, it can kill us.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”—Matthew 5:27-28.

 

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Encouraging Gesture

Jackie Robinson and Pee Wee Reese

Jackie Robinson and Pee Wee Reese

Jackie Robinson was the first black person to play major league baseball. While breaking baseball’s color barrier, he faced jeering crowds in every stadium.

While playing one day in his home stadium in Brooklyn, be committed an error. His own fans began to ridicule him. He stood at second base, humiliated, while the fans jeered.

Then shortstop “Pee Wee” Reese came over and stood next to him. He put his arm around Jackie Robinson and faced the crowd. The fans grew quiet. Robinson later said that arm around his shoulder saved his career.

Always be looking for an opportunity to make an encouraging gesture to someone who desperately needs it.

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”—1 Thessalonians 5:11.

 

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Third Strand

braided-hairSince I am bald, I am not exactly an expert on hair braiding. However, I saw an illustration that might be worth sharing:

A braid appears to contain only two strands of hair. But it is impossible to create a braid with only two strands. If the two could be put together at all, they would quickly unravel.

Herein lies the mystery: What looks like two strands requires a third. The third strand, though not immediately evident, keeps the strands tightly woven.

In a Christian marriage, God’s presence, like the third strand in a braid, holds husband and wife together.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain…”—Psalm 127:1.

 

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Spread Yourself Around

ashes-scatteredI read about a company that has just started offering a unique service for those who have passed away and wish for their ashes to be spread across the earth. The cremated remains of the deceased are lifted by a balloon into the upper atmosphere. There the ashes are released into the jet stream, where they may float around for weeks. Eventually the remains fall to the earth, sometimes in the form of rain or snow.

That sounds like a good way to spread yourself around!

However, we don’t have to wait until we are dead to scatter ourselves about. Jesus says that we Christians are the salt of the earth. We don’t stay in the salt shaker! We scatter ourselves around, enriching people’s lives along the way and spreading the gospel message wherever we go.

So get out there and spread yourself around!

“You are the salt of the earth…let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”—Mathew 5:13-16.

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Proper Thanks

grapesYears ago, a wine company advertisement in Newsweek magazine read: “The earth gives us wonderful grapes. The grapes give us wonderful wine. The wine wins us lots of new friends. Thank you, earth.”

How easy it is to give credit and thanks to everything or everyone but the real source of all our blessings!

The fruit of the vine should remind us of the greatest blessing we have—salvation in Jesus Christ—and of the sacrifice it took for us to have such a blessing.

“Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!”—2 Corinthians 9:15.

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